ParentSpeak: What's Wrong with How We Talk to Our Children--and What to Say InsteadA provocative guide to the hidden dangers of parentspeakthose seemingly innocent phrases parents use when speaking to their young children. Imagine if every time you praise your child with Good job! youre actually doing harm? Or that urging a child to say Can you say thank you? is exactly the wrong way to go about teaching manners? Jennifer Lehr is a smart, funny, and fearless writer who takes everything you thought you knew about parenting and turns